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Old 04-04-2012, 01:48 PM   #94 (permalink)
Pit-of-my-stomach
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Default Re: Im not married to the man I love

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Originally Posted by Jellybeans View Post
I guess I don't understand--if you say you don't love your husband and are in love with someone else, why do you want to stay married? it makes no frickin sense.
Makes perfect sense.

She didn't say she wants to be married. She said she doesn't want to be 24 and divorced without trying... huge difference.

Guilt and image maintainance.

Q: If the marriage ends right now, what caused the marriage to end?
A: "affair"

Q: If the marriage ends in a year, after they both "try" to fix it, what caused the marriage to end?
A: "compatibility"

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Originally Posted by Caprica_six View Post
Even if i leave him, i could never be with the other guy, he is married and has kids and would never leave because he's too scared he'll lose his kids, which I completely understand.
(see above) There isn't a fantasy land future with OM. Of course she wants to "try".

and there is NO WAY IN H3LL this poster tells the OM's wife anything.

Listen.... Don't get snowed here. This is not about her conscience, or doing whats right.

It's massive damage control.
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