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BrokenFrag · 04-07-2008, 08:56 AM

My wife loves me but is not in love with me. After 8 years the sexual attraction is gone. She had an affair, and now I am trying to win her back. Basically, she wants me to make her jealous. She wants me to be confident and have women want me. She thinks this might make her want me again.

I have very high moral and ethical standards and do not like where this might lead me, but I love her and will try anything to keep her.

My question is this: What do women find attractive in a social interaction? I am pretty sure that anyone who spends enough time talking to me ends up liking me. I am a nice guy with a great sense of humor. But that doesn't get anyone's motor running, so to speak. I am slightly overweight (although working very hard to change that), and believe that I am average to above average looking. I am 5'11'' 200lbs with dark brown hair and dark brown eyes. Although I am overweight, I do carry well (I can flex fat!). I am an above average dresser. Working with these assets/handicaps, what are other things I can focus on?

Thanks.

04-07-2008, 08:56 AM	#1 (permalink)
BrokenFrag Member Join Date: Mar 2008 Posts: 81	What would attract you at a bar/club/party? My wife loves me but is not in love with me. After 8 years the sexual attraction is gone. She had an affair, and now I am trying to win her back. Basically, she wants me to make her jealous. She wants me to be confident and have women want me. She thinks this might make her want me again. I have very high moral and ethical standards and do not like where this might lead me, but I love her and will try anything to keep her. My question is this: What do women find attractive in a social interaction? I am pretty sure that anyone who spends enough time talking to me ends up liking me. I am a nice guy with a great sense of humor. But that doesn't get anyone's motor running, so to speak. I am slightly overweight (although working very hard to change that), and believe that I am average to above average looking. I am 5'11'' 200lbs with dark brown hair and dark brown eyes. Although I am overweight, I do carry well (I can flex fat!). I am an above average dresser. Working with these assets/handicaps, what are other things I can focus on? Thanks.