Originally Posted by working_together
Are you kidding????
After what she told you, that she doesn't promise not to leave again with those same feelings??? She needed to do some begging or whatever, you made it too easy for her.
I know everyone likes to have an intact family, but, you can't be a door mat either. I think you should have said "can we think about it, and just date for a bit to see if it's really going to work". Make her work for it..ya know?
Just my 2 cents
i am totally with this!!
sorta like how i feel about h now casually asking if we have hope...um after all he's said and done, how about working for it a little (meaning a lot)??