swedish

I'll give you my thoughts on that with some concrete examples, because I think men (and women) can pull this off without being inappropriate or leading anyone on. If I am in the grocery store, at the gym, or whatever with my husband and he shows confidence (say the cashier is an attractive woman) and starts small talk with her & says something funny to make her smile or laugh it does make me think other women find him attractive....ok, here's a real one that happened...we were at the gym on this machine that I hate and my husband went to the drinking fountain so when he came back I did the 'Will Ferrill Anchorman' line...999, one thousand...did you see that honey, I just did 1000 and I feel the burn...the guy on the machine next to us started laughing and my husband told me later...that guy has been looking at you since we got here...I said does that bug you? He said, no cuz you're hot and you're with me. I would think that's what she means....Women are attracted to powerful men, charming/funny men because when you are in a room full of people, they naturally draw attention from all those around them and it creates some sense of a challenge to gain their attention...if that makes any sense at all.