Talk About Marriage - View Single Post - Separated for 6 mos. and don't know what to do

chrs0111 · 06-28-2009, 10:36 PM

Hello everyone...I am new to this forum and am looking forward to chatting with all of you. I will try to give you the simplest rundown of my situation and look forward to hearing your responses.
My wife and I have been married 2.5 years, and have been separated for the past 6 months (living separately). We have sold our house and now each have our own apt with a year lease. Met my wife through my sister 9 years ago and have been together for the past 6 years. My wife and I talk all the time...atleast 2x a day, and sometimes 4 to 5. However we don't see each other all that often (1x a week). We do have very good conversation over the phone and even talk very positively about our future. However in person things seem to be much different. We are OK for a little while but then she seems to get very frustrated and wants me to leave. When I see her I want to kiss her and we normally do, but lately she seems so reluctant. She almost dashes past the kiss and gives me a hug. The conversation doesn't seem to be flowing as well as it once did. I love her very much and all my friends say they can see how much I adore her...however theyre not sure (nor am I) that she feels the same. She always tells me how much she loves me but sometimes her actions speak louder than her words...Any questions feel free to ask and again I look forward to hearing all of your responses.

06-28-2009, 10:36 PM	#1 (permalink)
chrs0111 Registered User Join Date: Jun 2009 Posts: 28	Separated for 6 mos. and don't know what to do Hello everyone...I am new to this forum and am looking forward to chatting with all of you. I will try to give you the simplest rundown of my situation and look forward to hearing your responses. My wife and I have been married 2.5 years, and have been separated for the past 6 months (living separately). We have sold our house and now each have our own apt with a year lease. Met my wife through my sister 9 years ago and have been together for the past 6 years. My wife and I talk all the time...atleast 2x a day, and sometimes 4 to 5. However we don't see each other all that often (1x a week). We do have very good conversation over the phone and even talk very positively about our future. However in person things seem to be much different. We are OK for a little while but then she seems to get very frustrated and wants me to leave. When I see her I want to kiss her and we normally do, but lately she seems so reluctant. She almost dashes past the kiss and gives me a hug. The conversation doesn't seem to be flowing as well as it once did. I love her very much and all my friends say they can see how much I adore her...however theyre not sure (nor am I) that she feels the same. She always tells me how much she loves me but sometimes her actions speak louder than her words...Any questions feel free to ask and again I look forward to hearing all of your responses.