| | Re: Need Advise from Ladies
From what I've learned here and other sources, affairs aren't usually about sex.
Of course the sex picks up with the AP because the AP is doing what the WS wants.
Sex may be great at home, but other needs are not being met. Sex may be scarce at home because other needs are not being met.
In either case, the WS is looking for something emotional that he/she cannot get at home.