Personally, that was really something I would react the very same way about. Being married means the responsibility of coming home is there regardless of what the event you are at. That responsibility to his family DOES NOT change.
Funny that 'some' husbands always bounces back the things they do wrong by telling us women that we are the bad ones for complaining, nagging, etc. I say, if it was not something bad or questionable to begin with, there would be no complaining and 'nagging' on our parts.
right?
I would be really angry in this case, but I found that only brings MORE drama into the mix. So my advice would be to talk to your husband and really in a very calm way, be honest and tell him that you really did not feel good about him not coming home. tell him that, and let him think about it. since what's done is done, there is no real option here but to talk it out or fight... and I think you'ld rather him realize it was wrong of him to do that, that have a week long arguement... so stay calm... and just talk it out.... sometimes they just don't realize the extent of what they do... remember MANY things that seem major to women, are not so major for men... I'm sure it was an innocent case of the excited hubby to be with friends... and thats so normal with married men....
So don't worry. Just make sure you tell him how you felt. He will sit and realize it and see where you are coming from. I' m sure if YOU were the one who stayed out... it wouldn't be acceptable to give HIM his same excuse, right?
