Originally Posted by Lifescript
Conrad: I think because my wife has always suffered from low self esteem, not feeling good about herself she always looked for someone who she thought was in a way better than her to make her feel special. This was me. I fullfilled that role in the beginning but then things changed. She would accused me of not getting ahead in life when I finished school and she's still going. It was crazy the things she accused me of. In many ways she accused me of things she was doing to me. Crazy.
Did you ever hear of the term "projection"
People accuse others of that which is foremost in their own minds.
It's a reflection on them, not you.