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His_Pixie · 04-07-2012, 05:39 PM

Hubby and I (ages 55 and 53, respectively) had a very adventurous sex life before we got married. I won't get into details but we had some specific activities we engaged in and that I thought were all part-and-parcel of our relationship. Since we got married six months ago, we've engaged in our "special play" maybe twice. I'm disappointed and frustrated and he gets defensive if I bring it up.

I understand that our "play" requires more energy and involvement than vanilla sex but heck. It's been MONTHS. I'm disappointed. I love the man like crazy but I feel a bit betrayed here.

Not sure what I want from y'all. Just needed to vent a bit I guess.

04-07-2012, 05:39 PM	#1 (permalink)
His_Pixie Member Join Date: Jan 2012 Location: Pittsburgh,PA Posts: 62	Sex is different after marriage! Hubby and I (ages 55 and 53, respectively) had a very adventurous sex life before we got married. I won't get into details but we had some specific activities we engaged in and that I thought were all part-and-parcel of our relationship. Since we got married six months ago, we've engaged in our "special play" maybe twice. I'm disappointed and frustrated and he gets defensive if I bring it up. I understand that our "play" requires more energy and involvement than vanilla sex but heck. It's been MONTHS. I'm disappointed. I love the man like crazy but I feel a bit betrayed here. Not sure what I want from y'all. Just needed to vent a bit I guess.