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Originally Posted by SunnyT  Will he consider marriage counseling? You both married each other for a reason... was it different when you were dating? |
We're doing that now. Only had one session so far. No, I guess it wasn't different when we were dating, but maybe it mattered less then? We thought because we both had the same morals and goals in life that we'd be good life partners I guess.
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Originally Posted by SunnyT There's got to be ways to amp up the sex life, and to spend better quality time together. Do what you can, THEN decide. |
We want different things in that department I'm afraid. He seeks a loving connection every time, and unless we are 'making love' he is not interested. I find that very difficult when we are both tired all the time, and would like sex for the sake of sex sometimes. Maybe in the shower, or something a wee bit exciting. He told me recently that he will never change in that aspect. He said the word 'never'. He's a deeply romantic man in ways that I am not. We view romance very differently.
