Originally Posted by Gabriel
True, what if the kid is yours? Will you breathe easier? Will you still wonder? If anything it doesn't answer the main question - has your wife been faithful to you?
I would be relieved to know for sure that my child is biologically mine.
I think she used to be unfaithful, never had a way to prove it, nor did she ever admit it. The only times she would admit her lies is when I had proof.
Do I think she is unfaithful now? No I do not. Would it change the dynamics of our marriage should I find out she had been unfaithful previously? Yes. I think I would be gone. Keeping a lie she could have admitted to me many times over nearly 2 decades would be a deal killer for me.