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nilokonyako · 04-10-2012, 12:14 PM

@keko/shaggy: Paternity tests cost more than a month's salary of an average person here in our country. Much more is the cost of hiring a PI. If only these are affordable then I could have easily done this before. I haven't even LEGALLY separated from my wife yet because of the cost. And this is very common here.

Also, it's not even the problem. I could take both kids if I want, she even allows me to. I think I have learned to love the kid since he I've been taking care of him for two years. What sucks is that he now reminds me of my wife's unfaithfulness (he looks like the father). I hate feeling that because I know the kid is innocent but I cant help but trigger.

I hope somebody who have similar experience give me some kind of input on how they handle the situation.

04-10-2012, 12:14 PM	#5 (permalink)
nilokonyako Member Join Date: Feb 2012 Posts: 30	Re: The worst thing that could happen @keko/shaggy: Paternity tests cost more than a month's salary of an average person here in our country. Much more is the cost of hiring a PI. If only these are affordable then I could have easily done this before. I haven't even LEGALLY separated from my wife yet because of the cost. And this is very common here. Also, it's not even the problem. I could take both kids if I want, she even allows me to. I think I have learned to love the kid since he I've been taking care of him for two years. What sucks is that he now reminds me of my wife's unfaithfulness (he looks like the father). I hate feeling that because I know the kid is innocent but I cant help but trigger. I hope somebody who have similar experience give me some kind of input on how they handle the situation.