Originally Posted by nwguy111

Yes, I have felt for awhile that she's been losing interest. I offer her massages all the time. I'll fix a nice dinner, pour a couple glasses of wine, take her out for an evening, go for walks together, etc. Sometimes this works. Most of the time it doesn't. I never expect anything in return, but she always assumes there's a catch. I keep telling myself to be patient and kind, but it starts to wear on a person after awhile when they don't feel their needs are being reciprocated. At the very least, if she could show a physical attraction to me. This way, I wouldn't feel like she was simply servicing my needs every now and then.