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clenzemary · 04-10-2012, 08:05 PM

Could it be that because he is not as supportive as in the past that made you suddenly notice that he is a pathological liar? You need to come out clearly.From your post he seemed to have filled in well in helping you get over the very last nasty relationship you had before marriage, then where did things suddenly change?These questions need to be carefully answered as a good beginning to addressing the current challange in your marriage. You should assure you husband that your love him the way he is but that what disgust you is the lies he tells.You should also go the extra mile of helping him identify the ways / things he could do to improve his current situation without being judemental.While on your part you need to be more accomodationg having discovered this strong shortcoming about his personality.

04-10-2012, 08:05 PM	#14 (permalink)
clenzemary Registered User Join Date: Feb 2012 Posts: 21	Re: Married a Liar Could it be that because he is not as supportive as in the past that made you suddenly notice that he is a pathological liar? You need to come out clearly.From your post he seemed to have filled in well in helping you get over the very last nasty relationship you had before marriage, then where did things suddenly change?These questions need to be carefully answered as a good beginning to addressing the current challange in your marriage. You should assure you husband that your love him the way he is but that what disgust you is the lies he tells.You should also go the extra mile of helping him identify the ways / things he could do to improve his current situation without being judemental.While on your part you need to be more accomodationg having discovered this strong shortcoming about his personality.