I'm not so sure I would call what you say are "standards"
I could easily say I hate going to churches with White people becuase there is no way they can speak the truth, and call it "standards"
Instead it's ignorance.
You posted your main point we disagree with it, which is fine. as we said, you don't have to go to their church, but you don't have to post here why Gays should not be able to practice a specific religion, simpy because they are gay.
Ignorance, hate, standars, however you wish to describe it, it reaches the same conclusion.