Originally Posted by sisters359

It's hard to know without more detail. I think talking to your doctor is a start. yes!Call a hotline for support and/or advice; um, maybe not, read below for my experience.even if there is no women's shelter or facility where you are, you can probably connect with a free support line and get ideas/suggestions/advice. know who's manning those support lines? professionals? highly doubtful. i spent a few evenings answering phones for a local crisis hotline. you'd ber surprised at how much "hating" goes on.

You don't say if children are involved and that's important for anyone to know before giving more recommendations. Talking doesn't change anything, but to get ideas on how to change things, you'll need to give more details.

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