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mommy22 · 04-09-2008, 12:15 PM

I'm concerned you're embarking on dangerous territory. I get hit on a lot too. Unfortunately, the attention I got at the gym led to my affair. I'm not so sure your wife knows what she's asking. Working on your physical appearance and confidence will definitely help. I'd LOVE to see my husband lose 40 pounds-- for himself and me. I like him having confidence, but I like him just being outwardly proud of me even more. I now put my headphones in at the gym and do nothing more than smile, wave and concentrate on my workout. I think when you start looking to what everyone outside your marriage thinks, you set yourself up for trouble.

04-09-2008, 12:15 PM	#8 (permalink)
mommy22 Moderator Join Date: Apr 2008 Posts: 267	Re: What would attract you at a bar/club/party? I'm concerned you're embarking on dangerous territory. I get hit on a lot too. Unfortunately, the attention I got at the gym led to my affair. I'm not so sure your wife knows what she's asking. Working on your physical appearance and confidence will definitely help. I'd LOVE to see my husband lose 40 pounds-- for himself and me. I like him having confidence, but I like him just being outwardly proud of me even more. I now put my headphones in at the gym and do nothing more than smile, wave and concentrate on my workout. I think when you start looking to what everyone outside your marriage thinks, you set yourself up for trouble.