Originally Posted by jobill4444
Its underground now just another f*** up on my part... She knows I know isnt that enought? Let her get out of the fog? I mean FFS I seem to be in a loose loose situation...
No. Unfortunately, this is not enough. She knows you will put up with this. Why should she bother?
As long as her affair is comfortable, she has no motivation to stop it. Why would she? Out of respect to you? But would she have started it in the first place if she respected you?
Just think a bit. You knowing it does not change much.
You have to kill the affair. The most certain way to kill an affair is to expose it. To HR, to his wife.
You have to command respect. The shortest path to it is to respect yourself first. To be able to say "no" when it has to be said.
And if there is ever a situation to say firm "no", it's where you are now.
I don't really think you'll do any of that now, but writing this more in hope than when you get tired from your guts being wrenched, you will recall it.