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D8zed · 07-02-2009, 10:43 AM

First, you ARE being emotionally abused. Don't doubt it for one minute. YOU ARE. My wife, who's controlling and dominating, says the same thing about events she thinks are insignificant - "that was so long ago, why can't you get over it. You're too sensitive".

I am betting your doctor will refer you to a mental health professional. If he/she doesn't, then look for one yourself. You need an exit plan and a therapist can help you.

But it's up to *YOU* to take action. Please don't fall back into the "go back to the way things were" trap. Believe me, I do this myself even though I know in my heart it's not the right thing to do.

07-02-2009, 10:43 AM	#11 (permalink)
D8zed Member Join Date: Mar 2009 Posts: 285	Re: Time to end it? First, you ARE being emotionally abused. Don't doubt it for one minute. YOU ARE. My wife, who's controlling and dominating, says the same thing about events she thinks are insignificant - "that was so long ago, why can't you get over it. You're too sensitive". I am betting your doctor will refer you to a mental health professional. If he/she doesn't, then look for one yourself. You need an exit plan and a therapist can help you. But it's up to YOU to take action. Please don't fall back into the "go back to the way things were" trap. Believe me, I do this myself even though I know in my heart it's not the right thing to do. __________________ D8zed and Confused