Originally Posted by airplane888
There are all kinds of strap on's, big one's, tiny one's, some with vibration some without. There strap on's which are double dildo types so she can get off too. So instead of acting like it's out of a horror, porno movie, sex toy. Sit down with her and look at the options, for that matter get 2 or 3 different kinds, you don't f u c k in only one position do you? When I asked my wife to peg me, all I got was, No Way, I am NOT a Lesbian!!!
I would think it would be really hot getting a bl o w job at the same time as getting my butt f u c ked too. Just because she is coming on strong doesn't mean she is out to hurt you, I doubt she is that ugly of a person. How some fun, make it fun, open up your mind to how much fun, it could be doing something she wants. Just the joy of being there with her, while she is doing something she enjoys should be enough.
airplane ... wishing his spouse would wear one for him
Yes, I think it is a role play thing. She treats me like the man of the house. I go out and work hard while she is a stay-at-home mom... so, I think this dominant role play thing gets her horny. Her saying "get a big one" adds to her arousal. Even i get a small one or even refuse... she still gets off on telling me to do it... she likes for me to be very much in charge in bed, which I am... she wants to be in charge for a thrill I guess...