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discouraged1 · 04-12-2012, 03:11 PM

I will apologize for ranting here but I am just so fed up with all the excuses.
Been asking wife to go down on her for the last week.. just give her pleasure no asking for sex, bj, or anything for me. All her. I love her scent and really love to give her pleasure!
She still puts me off with excuse after excuse.
By the way "I have a headache". I said ok and got her some headache medicine and gave her a back and neck rub, then rubbed her forehead and temples.
I leave her alone with lights off while she is watching TV. I go back in about 30 minutes later and she has her laptop on and her cell phone in hand. I monitored it for the next hour just to make sure she was not taking a quick glance.
Now I know when I have a headache that looking at a computer screen and or phone screen is painful and I cannot stand it.
I call "bulls_--@#$@!
Am I missing something here? I have already started a 180 but I am about to kick it up a notch!

04-12-2012, 03:11 PM	#1 (permalink)
discouraged1 Member Join Date: Mar 2010 Location: In the South Posts: 259	Turning down pleasure.. I just don't get it. I will apologize for ranting here but I am just so fed up with all the excuses. Been asking wife to go down on her for the last week.. just give her pleasure no asking for sex, bj, or anything for me. All her. I love her scent and really love to give her pleasure! She still puts me off with excuse after excuse. By the way "I have a headache". I said ok and got her some headache medicine and gave her a back and neck rub, then rubbed her forehead and temples. I leave her alone with lights off while she is watching TV. I go back in about 30 minutes later and she has her laptop on and her cell phone in hand. I monitored it for the next hour just to make sure she was not taking a quick glance. Now I know when I have a headache that looking at a computer screen and or phone screen is painful and I cannot stand it. I call "bulls_--@#$@! Am I missing something here? I have already started a 180 but I am about to kick it up a notch!