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GAsoccerman · 04-10-2008, 01:45 AM

Drac I can see your point....

But while on Vacation, me and my brother-in-law plus nephew would drive over to Atlantic City (we vacation down the Jerrsey shore)

Anyway....

His wife (my sister-in-law) would call him constantly on his cell phone while we were at the casino...where are you? what are you doing?? constantly worrying.

My wife, Her sister.....did not call me once, nor did I call her.

We got home at 5AM...his wife was awake waiting for him....My wife was sleeping.

The sad part is, that day, since the "boys went to the casino" we told the ladies they could go for the day, only fair right? My wife and Nieces went plus my sisters, His wife stayed home with us.....She was worried about who would feed the kids, who will do this? who will do that??? She coould just not relax and enjoy vacation.

Some people that is just their nature to worry about the "what if's"

Trust is built up over time and through a strong bond.

All I am saying, it is hard to enjoy yourself at a party if your wife/Girlfriend? boyfriend/Husband......Keeps calling you asking where you are, matter of fact it's embarrassing to me.

But hey, each to their own I suppose, I jsut do not see everything as right or wrong, there are alot of variables to life.

You could be gone tomorrow for what ever reason. I've seen it to many times.

Life is to short to worry about everything.

04-10-2008, 01:45 AM	#11 (permalink)
GAsoccerman Member Join Date: Mar 2008 Location: Georgia Posts: 556	Re: He didn't come home Saturday night. Drac I can see your point.... But while on Vacation, me and my brother-in-law plus nephew would drive over to Atlantic City (we vacation down the Jerrsey shore) Anyway.... His wife (my sister-in-law) would call him constantly on his cell phone while we were at the casino...where are you? what are you doing?? constantly worrying. My wife, Her sister.....did not call me once, nor did I call her. We got home at 5AM...his wife was awake waiting for him....My wife was sleeping. The sad part is, that day, since the "boys went to the casino" we told the ladies they could go for the day, only fair right? My wife and Nieces went plus my sisters, His wife stayed home with us.....She was worried about who would feed the kids, who will do this? who will do that??? She coould just not relax and enjoy vacation. Some people that is just their nature to worry about the "what if's" Trust is built up over time and through a strong bond. All I am saying, it is hard to enjoy yourself at a party if your wife/Girlfriend? boyfriend/Husband......Keeps calling you asking where you are, matter of fact it's embarrassing to me. But hey, each to their own I suppose, I jsut do not see everything as right or wrong, there are alot of variables to life. You could be gone tomorrow for what ever reason. I've seen it to many times. Life is to short to worry about everything.