Originally Posted by CharlotteMarie
Okay, here's some of the story. My fiancee and I are getting married Saturday April 14th, but here's the problem..
We really don't have the money to get our own place at the moment, but are saving up money to get one in the future. Living with his mother is H3LL. She tries to be in control of everything and even wants to go on our honeymoon with us... is it healthy for us to live with her until we get the money to live on our own? How do I deal with her craziness until we DO get the money to get our own place? There's a lot to this story. But I have been typing so much, there's just entirely to much to type at this point..it's that crazy living with her...
Married my ex when we were both young as well,but I won't reflect on that as we all face trials and tribulations in our life.So I'll just wish you the best on your journey.As for whether or not it's healthy to live there while saving money and how do you deal with the craziness.I would just say,suck it up and realize its short term pain for hopefully long term gain.Just focus on your goal though you might have to bite your tongue on occasion.I know I did,as I was in a similar situation with my ex MIL.Funny thing was,over the years and even after my marriage ended,my MIL became one of my biggest supporters.Take care.