Originally Posted by TheGoodFight
I've actually asked my wife to come on here before and now she hates it because people jumped down her throat. I've thought about asking her to come back because I feel like I'm getting so much good information here and she isn't and we can't even talk about it.
A WS has to survive the initial volley in order to get to the meat of the matter. Many fWS like my wife Morrigan do not post in threads a lot. Morrigan has been speaking to some new WS through PMs because she feels its a less emotionally tumultuous experience and very often allows them to get situated and feel more comfortable. If your wife wants to come back to TAM I'm sure Morrigan would be happy to talk to her and share experiences and make suggestions. TAM does not replace counseling but like AA or Alanon for alcoholics/loved ones it can be very therapeutic to hear from people who have already been there and done that.