Originally Posted by PBear
Keep in mind that both of you are already compromising. You want it once a month, your husband wants it 30 times a month. A split down the middle is say, 16, which works out to 4 times a week.
My STBXW also never hit a sexual peak. Or if she did, she never told me. My GF, however, is a one a day girl at 43. So I wouldn't count on things improving just because. Also keep in mind the lull that often goes along with having children and parenting. I'm just saying that people can't just things will magically right themselves; all aspects of marriage are work and require effort and compromise from both spouses.
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Ask him if he wants it more. I assume he'd happily say, YES PLEASE! He has already compromised and probably does it ever other day because he feels guilty as is.
I am sure you do not have to ask him if he wants it more though. You already know the answer.