Originally Posted by canttrustu
thats how I feel. Afew compliments, some ego stroking and BAM! Screw my 15yrs of faithfulness, respect and love. Not saying I am or was perfect but I didnt deserve this. Im so MAD. IM so .. the words just dont come.
Same here..I know I wasn't always the best wife..but for **** sakes just end the relationship then. I honestly do not know if I could see myself behind his back texting and messaging and phoning another guy while still being in a relationship. I would have felt so guilty about it....
That is another thing that pisses me off in that for 10 days before I caught him red handed by hacking into his private email with her..he lied to me told me he had stopped contacting her..plus all the talks we had during that week in which I was crying and saying we can work this out, I will work on stuff I have to work on and yet during that time he still was in contact.
Not on bit of guilt on his part....on one of the emails he said to her, "Hi beautiful" all this while we were going to try and work on our marriage. **** sometimes I want to make his life hell....
This is one of those times in which I feel like picking up the phone and contacting a lawyer and just saying **** it...I'm done. So for anyone who thinks that it has been 6 months and get over it...easier said than done. You never forget the words that you saw....I think he wishes that I would never bring it up again..but to me you did the actions you suffer the consequences.