Originally Posted by moxy

This expression "gives him head" does not mean what you think it means. You mean to say that she is inflating his ego. Don't use the other term, unless you're referring to a sex act, which I doubt you are. I'm not picking on you, just letting you know so you don't accidentally say in a context that will get you into a weird situation.

Don't rely on support from the in-laws. Start making moves to protect yourself. Make some friends, see if you can make some connections and regain control of your own self and life.