Originally Posted by lynnie21
That's a real jerk thing to say, no i am not dragging him along. If you want to look at it like that, why would i put myself through what i go through on a daily basis if i was "dragging him along", because it sure as he** is not fun for me either, relieving the biggest mistake of my life, and watching and feeling my family's pain. think before you open your mouth. please.
I am here for help, guidance, others perspectives, not smart a$$ comments.
Because OM thrown you under the bus and you want the safety of your marriage and your selfishness, fear of being alone without anyone there to support you. Else why you want to be with a person you hated, thrashed, abused and treated like a cuckold?
You are really lucky, sean took you back even after your horrible betrayal!!!!!!!!!!!!!
When you got back the security blanket of your marriage you dont want him to ask any questions. want him to get over it and act like nothing happened REALLY? wah, you are yet not aware of the intensity of the pain you caused, you are only saying blah blah blah, I dont think that you are truly remorseful or truly in love with him. what a great understanding and caring companion he got!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
If you really want to be with him, wht you are doing now is not enough. better go through the treads of working together or cantsitstill or pidge, you can see what they did to earn back the trust and stability in their marriage back.