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Remains · 04-14-2012, 11:03 AM

BTW mine turned cold on me when I did mini 180's before. My behaviour was as obvious as his. He would go cold too for a bit, send a text to test the water, and we were back on again. How long did your 180s last? You need to be decisive, otherwise it is dragging it out for both of you and making both of you miserable (not your fault, just how it is). My man was also happy so long as we weren't discussing anything, I was loving, and all was 'normal'. If your man is depressed, he needs to talk. If he won't talk, why? Tell him what you are doing and why. Be clear. If he wants to sort it out he will. If not, he will go. The 180 won't push him away, especially if you are clear with him. What it will do is push for a decision to be made. And for him to deal with the issues and not sweep them under the carpet.

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Remains Member Join Date: Jan 2012 Location: England Posts: 987	Re: Should I do the 180 at this point? BTW mine turned cold on me when I did mini 180's before. My behaviour was as obvious as his. He would go cold too for a bit, send a text to test the water, and we were back on again. How long did your 180s last? You need to be decisive, otherwise it is dragging it out for both of you and making both of you miserable (not your fault, just how it is). My man was also happy so long as we weren't discussing anything, I was loving, and all was 'normal'. If your man is depressed, he needs to talk. If he won't talk, why? Tell him what you are doing and why. Be clear. If he wants to sort it out he will. If not, he will go. The 180 won't push him away, especially if you are clear with him. What it will do is push for a decision to be made. And for him to deal with the issues and not sweep them under the carpet.