Re: Can people change?
ALcoholics give it up and stay sober for life completely changing who they are forever. It is hard, it is many baby steps and plenty of help along the way. Nothing is different from this. People can and do change. I have seem violent people take control of anger issues, alcoholics give up the booze, cheaters go strait and narrow etc. Does it always happen, more people fail then make it but isn't your marriage worth giving her a chance to change before throwing in the towel. Specially at a point where you have laid the foundation to rebuild your marriage.
draconis
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