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Old 08-17-2007, 01:28 AM   #41 (permalink)
stevewsc
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Location: rockhill, sc
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Talking Re: can you help me save my marriage

ok now one thing she did say that night on the phone was you told my family i was a drunk. she said i cant go one night without them calling me and asking if i have drank anything. she said i argued with them earlier about asking me. i asked if she was and she said no. well i could tell she had been but i didnt say a word. well well well..............interesting night and day today. ok i went over there. she unlocked the door and went straight back to bed no words spoken. i went in and she said i am so tired. well i looked for the phone and souldnt find it. so i went on the porch to smoke and looked in the ash tray. there were 3 butts from marlboro menthol. neither one of us smoke them. so i will findout tomorrow what kind Shawn smokes from lisa. so i just reach over and squeeze her purse on the counter and i felt minni bottles. i looked and there was 4 empties. well i was going to get into my turck and just leave cause i knew she was lieing. but me being a man i went and got into the bed with her. well we did the unthinkable again. but before you think wrong of me i did it for a reason. so i could get more information and thats all. we got done and she said ok now you need to go before they get up and see you. i was putting my boots back on and i said you sure you havent drank anything? she said no. i said well explain the bottles in your purse. she said i knew i couldnt trust you, they are from like two weeks ago. i said well i just want you to be honest with me. i said i beieve you. even though i dont, i was thinking. i said you have to be honest with yourself before you can be honest with me. i got up and she said give me a kiss. she said i will call you tomorrow. i left.
well the next day i sat here thinking i need to go back to the house. so i said i know what i will do. the lawnmower battery is dead so i will head over there call her when i pull into the driveway and tell her i am getting the numbers and it will give me 10 miniutes to get the heck out. so i did only she didnt answer her phone. lololol well i looked everywhere for the spare key my daughter told me was on the porch and didnt find it. well i grabbed the door knob and it was unlocked. i went in. checked the phone. no other calls made but mine at work the night before. no caller id so i guess she doesnt have it now. nothing credable so i start looking for wrote down numbers. i pulled a drawer open and it full of empty minni bottles. long story short. i found over 25 minni bottles. 1/5 bottle empty, 2 pints empty. and i went through two nasty trash bags and found more minni bottles. so there is no telling how many more have been thrown away. now i went though all these very drawers when i moved out so she has only had 41 days to drink all that. 10 of which she was at the lake so that leave 31 days! and i also find SHAWN'S number....bingo that is what i was looking for. so i haul butt back home and pay for a reverse phone book thing. then i findout his name is really harry and that shawn is a nickname. well needless to say i got his address at the lake. and one for columbia. now columbia is where she has been runnig two the first two weeks of the seperation. she said her friend melissa lives there. but two days ago she told me her and melissa were going to spend the night at the river monday night. she said so they wouldnt have as far to drive for the state boards on tuesday morning. i asked whre they were taking them. she said columbia! now why wouldnt she stay at melissa's instead of the lake? well i ran a search on melissa's number and it was registered out of our town. so i am thinking now that she has been going to see him but i still dont know. well today which is friday will be the tell all. i asked her thursday night if she wanted to get dinner or something tongiht and she said no. so if she has to work tomorrow she will most likely take haily to lisas tonight to spend the night and stay tomorrow till she gets off. so if she does i will do a drive by and then if she isnt home i will check her mothers house at the lake and so on untill i find her car. when and if i find it at his residence i will put my PI on her next weekend when i keep both kids for the night. but if she keeps my girl i dont know yet. i am thinking she will drive to her parents house cause she told me tuesday they stay in rock hill everynight but saturday and sunday. so she will most likely leave late when haily falls asleep and meet him down there. now i think he has his kids this weekend also cause he didnt last weekend. so if he does she might go straight to his house. all i know if she gets rid of haily and doesnt call me to come see her she is up to something. i will findout. wether or not he is a friend or not. if he is a friend she has no buisness being at his house late at night. so i guess the truth will kill her or set her free this weekend. if she is in fact seeing him i am going for custody! if she isnt i am addressing the liquor issue. i havent figured how to that cause she isnt gonna quit till she is ready to. so the next two days will be interesting!
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