Re: What would attract you at a bar/club/party?
I think your wife is confused.. this young man has come along and turned her head with puppy dog looks and soppy notes... It will wear off..
Perhaps she feels (rightly or wrongly) that she has been missing out on something, and that she'll find it with lover boy..
All you can really do is continue to be your normal loving considerate self, and wait to pick her up when the puppy love inevitably dies out.
For a lasting love, you need more than soppy poetry. You need to be able to rely on someone that will always be there when you need them, and will take care of you when you are ill, cheer you up when you are unhappy..
That's you.. she'll figure it out.
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