Originally Posted by Havesomethingtosay
Any post from a woman who talks about her spouse wanting too much sex is met with what SHE NEEDS TO DO and that she should GIVE BJ's to make up for the gap. Seldom is it said that heck yep he should be okay 1-2X/wk of quality fun sex. I want sex once a month - why should I have it more often?
It seems you`re injecting facts not in the posts you cite though.
Here you say..
"Seldom is it said that heck yep he should be okay 1-2X/wk of quality fun sex."
About a thread where a woman is complaining because she can`t seem to understand why sex once a month in a marriage isn`t enough for her husband, not 1-2 times a week but once a month ONLY when she`s ovulating and in the mood..
Then there`s the fact that the thread in question doesn`t really advocate for "fun quality" sex but more like "Chore sex" which I don`t see as either fun or quality.
It just seems the thing you`re complaining about doesn`t exist.