Xiasulin, if you two are committed to each other, the paper will not make it stronger.
It will confer certain legal rights to each of you, though.
And if you are not committed to each other, the paper won't make it stronger, either.
If you married him as a "reward"...well... But is good to have a dear friend that will stand up for you. That's a good start for any relationship.
As for posting information, unless everyone you know read these forums, this is as anonymous as you will find. And without information, any advice/suggestions will never be complete.
You can't have vast results with half-vast preparations.
(say it out loud)
