Originally Posted by dcrim
Xiasulin, if you two are committed to each other, the paper will not make it stronger.
It will confer certain legal rights to each of you, though.
And if you are not committed to each other, the paper won't make it stronger, either.
If you married him as a "reward"...well... But is good to have a dear friend that will stand up for you. That's a good start for any relationship.
As for posting information, unless everyone you know read these forums, this is as anonymous as you will find. And without information, any advice/suggestions will never be complete.
You can't have vast results with half-vast preparations.
(say it out loud)
:P We were actually very anti marriage. Our theory was paper burns love is forever. I don't want any benefits, I just wanted the questions to stop. People still ask so many questions because I am only 19. And I don't know how to sit down and explain the family situation about what happened.
It's not that I know these will be read, my family knows what happened. It's a very open secret within the family (by open secret I mean it's one of those things ex. where everyone knows or the major people know you're throwing a surprise party for that special cousin but nobody talks about it and everyone pretends that they don't know). It's that I just don't know if talking about it here is a good thing. How people would take it because it's just...too much maybe? It's not a story I like to run around shouting to the universe. And its not one that I can tell without feeling like I want to vomit myself.