| | Re: The Phantom Boyfriend/mid life Crisis
The feedback has already been given. You already know what has been suggested and they are all good suggestions. If you don't take those suggestions then buy a big box of condoms. Give some to the nephew and keep some for yourself. You guys just share her until she dumps you.
I get the whole "keeping face" and "not wanting to bring shame on your family" thing. But what about YOUR family? It's as simple as this: YOUR dojo, YOUR rules.