Talk About Marriage - View Single Post - moved from CWI to going-through-divorce...

gear1903 · 04-16-2012, 02:14 PM

thanks all. just so there is no misunderstanding, we are already in the process of filling out the D papers. in our state, we can do a no-fault D. we aren't trying to gouge each other out of each other's assets, we both make about the same amount, and don't have kids, so going forward with this type of D seems to be cleanest. the fact that we can be so unemotional when it comes to filling out the paperwork and deciding who gets what just shows how fargone things are.

beowulf, i refuse to let her 'find herself' through dating of other guys while we are married, which is why i'm rushing w/ the D. i agree with you guys 100% and don't want to end up emotionally destroyed like the pic SRN posted... :P

i guess what i was trying to learn in this forum was what life was like after the D, whether WS had changes of heart, and how BS have coped and gotten on w/ their lives. it's always good to hear others getting through things like this, showing that it can be done. thanks again all.

04-16-2012, 02:14 PM	#7 (permalink)
gear1903 Member Join Date: Apr 2012 Posts: 60	Re: moved from CWI to going-through-divorce... thanks all. just so there is no misunderstanding, we are already in the process of filling out the D papers. in our state, we can do a no-fault D. we aren't trying to gouge each other out of each other's assets, we both make about the same amount, and don't have kids, so going forward with this type of D seems to be cleanest. the fact that we can be so unemotional when it comes to filling out the paperwork and deciding who gets what just shows how fargone things are. beowulf, i refuse to let her 'find herself' through dating of other guys while we are married, which is why i'm rushing w/ the D. i agree with you guys 100% and don't want to end up emotionally destroyed like the pic SRN posted... :P i guess what i was trying to learn in this forum was what life was like after the D, whether WS had changes of heart, and how BS have coped and gotten on w/ their lives. it's always good to hear others getting through things like this, showing that it can be done. thanks again all.