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Originally Posted by GAsoccerman
Hmmmm you spent the whole thread talking about you and Not him??
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The thread was about the things he told me or what we talked about in our talk, not meant to be all about me...or I guess I was hoping for some insight on what I was doing wrong. It hurt a lot for him to accuse me of having an affair.
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What does he do? How has he changed? How long have you been together? how old are you (ball aprk it if you want)
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He's a lead driver for an office supply delivery unit. When the manager is out, he runs the place and is on the list for moving up when the opportunity arises.
We've been together for about 5 years. I am 35 and he is 42.
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Sounds to me you are "self absorbed", and he feels he is just along for the ride.
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hmmm...that's funny. I rarely think of myself at all in the grand scheme of things, though I am starting to put some importance on my health and future.
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But what are his interests?? He may be going through the "seven year itch" where he is lonely, not sure what he wants out of life....that all of a sudden...he is like.....Hmmmm I am bored. Remember us men are geared towards excitement and being that "crazy boy" Sometimes it is hard to accept that you are not that wild kid anymore, I've learn to take this in stride. I coach two soccer teams that allows me to get my energy out and have fun with our kids.
Anyway, tell us about him....then maybe we can help a little better 
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Hi interests revolve around porn. It's all he does. It's all he's interested in even though he's said that he likes models (we got several that he thought would be fun to, and he doesn't work on them), he likes working with leather, but he has never unpacked his leather working tools. We have a dormer that I was hoping to be our art room - his leather work, me learning to sew...for the most part, it's still in boxes. He doesn't like it if I'm in another part of the house, so I rarely go up there.
He has a gameboy advance, which he hasn't touched in at least a year, a play station and I got him some fishing games with the reel and golf game with an actual little golf clube you swing - two things he also enjoys doing. He went fishing a couple of times last summer, but didn't play golf because he was hurt. I got a set of golf clubs so I could learn the game and thought it would be something we could do togehter.
He like motorcycles, so we each got one so we could do that together as well. We are waiting for nice wether again. Nothing seems to be as important in what he likes to do then porn. He would rather look at that then any of his other interests.
I think he's very smart, but he belittles himself because he can't write a program or some of the things I do at work. He doesn't understand it and I tell him that doesn't make him stupid.