Originally Posted by therelationshipguy

Jealousy is almost always about the person being jealous, not about what you do. A jealous person behaves that way because he or she does not feel secure in some way. The only effective way for people to get over jealousy is to build up their own security. It takes effort but, if the person looks at the things inside him or her that cause jealousy, then they can work through them. You are not responsible for someone feeling jealous, they are. The good news is they will feel great if they work on what causes the jealousy in them. Then you won't have to worry about what you do because they will feel secure enough to trust.