Originally Posted by HELP ME.
We have had trust issues in the past (her lodging in same hotel rooms as opposite sex and not telling me) that caused me to leave
seems everyone has glossed over this comment. i would be livid had my wife done this, and despite any efforts she might make to convince me otherwise, i would be tormented with the thought that more than a room was shared.
i doubt i could come back from this.
To the original question, your situation is similar to my own. there are times i cant stand to be around my wife. they seem to be getting more frequent. without regular intimacy, i struggle to find the patience for the rest of what makes a marriage work. there are other issues affecting my situation that i wont go into, but resentment is my number one problem.