Re: I wrote this to my husband, as a guy what do you think
It was good you didnt threaten the relationship. You did a great job telling him what bothered you.
You could have thrown in some things he does well so its not all negative.
It would be good if you didnt try witholding the way you do things for him. This type of tit for tat behavour doesnt encourage a positive future.
Use love and patience instead of negative type behavours. I also think you need to work on your own happiness independent of your husband. You have some medical issues to sort through and I here Pittsburgh actually has some good medical care (I am in the profession).
good luck
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