Does she have to leave her job?
If by some miracle, my wife comes around and end her affair and wants to work on her marriage, will it be possible if she and the man she had an affair with are in the same office? Will one of them have to leave?
She asked him a couple times to back off so she could think, but he didn't. Now, she wasn't very firm because she so very much enjoyed what they were doing, but after a talk this morning, it seems as though she might really want to try.
Should she look for another branch? No matter how bad she wants to change and have a second chance, I doubt she would ever give up her branch or job to make sure the affair can't continue. Our marriage and relationship are not that important to her (obviously, otherwise she woudln't have had the affair).
Will we be able to move on if he is always there as a reminder? What if he doesn't stop? Can you get a restraining order on a coworker?
I am not sure if I will ever be able to trust her as long as he is around. Oh well. I guess I was wondering if anyone had any experience with an office affair and how you and your marriage made it work.
Thanks.
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