Talk About Marriage - View Single Post - Can your spouse truly love you but still cheat on you?

canttrustu · 04-18-2012, 02:50 PM

I think the answer is No. I think somewhere along the line the WS falls out of love with the bs and allows themselves to move forward. Otherwise, the A would never have BEGAN. It wouldnt have gotten far enough for the fog to begin. They would have walked away when that first pang happened. Yes they are human. Attraction happens. But IF my H was IN love w/me AT the time SHE would not have happened. JMO.

However, I do believe he can love you/me again if he learns who he is again.(if you/i are able to allow it)

04-18-2012, 02:50 PM	#15 (permalink)
canttrustu Member Join Date: Feb 2012 Posts: 2,860	Re: Can your spouse truly love you but still cheat on you? I think the answer is No. I think somewhere along the line the WS falls out of love with the bs and allows themselves to move forward. Otherwise, the A would never have BEGAN. It wouldnt have gotten far enough for the fog to begin. They would have walked away when that first pang happened. Yes they are human. Attraction happens. But IF my H was IN love w/me AT the time SHE would not have happened. JMO. However, I do believe he can love you/me again if he learns who he is again.(if you/i are able to allow it) Last edited by canttrustu; 04-18-2012 at 02:54 PM.