Re: Does she have to leave her job?
If she finally chooses to end her affair, then NC (no contact) is a must and if that means leaving her job then so be it. Yes it's hard to leave a job that you love but if the marriage is to be saved and rebuilt, then it has to be done. It may take some time for her to find another job but if both of you can survive on just your income, then leaving her job is not going to be hard.
Another requirement is that she has to agree to become an open book. She must understand that the trust you had in her has been destroyed and that if she is serious about regaining it, the she must become accountable to you for her whereabouts. She also must understand that this rule also applies to you because there are plenty of cases where today's betrayed spouse becomes tomorrow's unfaithful spouse. It's only fair after all that what you ask of others, you also ask of yourself.
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