losttrust

Wow like you said long post but I will try my best to give you the best advice I can for now. I myself is living this same situation, but this time my wife cheated on me and H ave not spoken to anyone about it and it is eating me inside, I will eventually discuss it with my wife when I come to terms with it but that's life.

But as for you and your Hubby, If he really really loves you like he says he does, sometimes forgiving and trying to Irons the bumps on the roads of marriage is a good think as long as there is not a repeat of this later in your married life. Keeping a good comunication door open is also a good thing to have. Anyway I hope this help you a bit. try and try, if nothing works, well there is always a seperation and divorce, let hope it doesn't go there, but he will have to put a lot of effort on his part.

Hang in there