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BrokenFrag · 04-14-2008, 07:37 AM

It seems that somehow her morals and values have been corrupted. Or maybe she was always a messed up person but is finally accepting it now.

She will not leave her job. Our marriage is not important enough to her to do something like that. Our marriage is not important enough to her to even completely commit to working on it. Our marriage is the least important thing in her life.

I should really stop trying and just leave and try to move on. Could she ever really learn to put me and her marriage first? To fight for her family no matter what?

She has stated that she feels like if I was really the one for her, that she would want to fight. But because she doesn't want to fight, I must not be the one. Nevermind she has been subconsiously (I hope) undermining our relationship for months, if not years. Of course right now she doesn't feel like fighting. She is the one who just cheated! She wouldn't have done that if she really cared and wanted to save our marriage.

How can I prepare myself to move on when I am so focused and hopeful that we might still have a chance. I don't want to be left in the lurch when she finally gives up, but I don't want to spend any energy on anything else until she does give up.

I feel so foolish and pathetic. Why me? I have so much love to give.

04-14-2008, 07:37 AM	#7 (permalink)
BrokenFrag Member Join Date: Mar 2008 Posts: 81	Re: Does she have to leave her job? It seems that somehow her morals and values have been corrupted. Or maybe she was always a messed up person but is finally accepting it now. She will not leave her job. Our marriage is not important enough to her to do something like that. Our marriage is not important enough to her to even completely commit to working on it. Our marriage is the least important thing in her life. I should really stop trying and just leave and try to move on. Could she ever really learn to put me and her marriage first? To fight for her family no matter what? She has stated that she feels like if I was really the one for her, that she would want to fight. But because she doesn't want to fight, I must not be the one. Nevermind she has been subconsiously (I hope) undermining our relationship for months, if not years. Of course right now she doesn't feel like fighting. She is the one who just cheated! She wouldn't have done that if she really cared and wanted to save our marriage. How can I prepare myself to move on when I am so focused and hopeful that we might still have a chance. I don't want to be left in the lurch when she finally gives up, but I don't want to spend any energy on anything else until she does give up. I feel so foolish and pathetic. Why me? I have so much love to give.