 Re: Is it an affair during separation?
It's cheating.
100% cheating.
It was her plan all along but didn't want to hurt your feelings at the time of separation.
My husband and I separated under similar terms. work on ourselves and check in once a week. Neither of us dated or anything.
if we had, that would have been the end.
Separation is not an "eff all" situation unless agreed on by both parties. in my eyes, separation is not single. You are still married and this will forever stain your marriage.
You cannot reconcile when one person is boffing other people.
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