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mommy22 · 04-14-2008, 10:15 AM

Sadly, if she chooses the other relationship, she'll eventually get bored with that one too. SHe'll probably come running back to you if that's the case. She's really toying with you and it's VERY unfair. She needs to decide what she wants RIGHT NOW so that you can move on with your life --whether it's with her or alone. I don't know what she's thinking. You sound like such a devoted, loving person. In my case, I took a backseat to my husband's job. I brought up counseling many times, begged for him to spend time with me. He's been doing that the last month and it's so wonderful. I feel like I'm an important part of his life again. It's all I wanted. What does she want? If she doesn't know, why is she jumping into another relationship? Have you asked her this? It makes no sense. She's not thinking straight. Anyway, it may be time for an ultimatum with her. Your heart can't take much more. Could you work out some sort of compromise where she cuts him off for a month while you two go to counseling and give it all you got and if it doesn't work then you'll let her go?

04-14-2008, 10:15 AM	#18 (permalink)
mommy22 Moderator Join Date: Apr 2008 Posts: 82	Re: What would attract you at a bar/club/party? Sadly, if she chooses the other relationship, she'll eventually get bored with that one too. SHe'll probably come running back to you if that's the case. She's really toying with you and it's VERY unfair. She needs to decide what she wants RIGHT NOW so that you can move on with your life --whether it's with her or alone. I don't know what she's thinking. You sound like such a devoted, loving person. In my case, I took a backseat to my husband's job. I brought up counseling many times, begged for him to spend time with me. He's been doing that the last month and it's so wonderful. I feel like I'm an important part of his life again. It's all I wanted. What does she want? If she doesn't know, why is she jumping into another relationship? Have you asked her this? It makes no sense. She's not thinking straight. Anyway, it may be time for an ultimatum with her. Your heart can't take much more. Could you work out some sort of compromise where she cuts him off for a month while you two go to counseling and give it all you got and if it doesn't work then you'll let her go?