Originally Posted by canttrustu
This is why Im quiet around my H alot. Im doing alot of thinking and trying not to say things unless they are fully thought out. I am NOT needy. I do NOT need him. I want him. I am doing my best to R. I have to say the 'want' I have for him has faded significantly. I think it will/can come back if/when he gets away from his job(her). But not before. Every day I have to hear her, see her email is just another day in hell. But I will not appear needy or whiney to him. He doesnt deserve for me to trust him enough to give my full emotion to him while he is still in contact with OW.
You know what..when I read your situation, it makes me realize that if she can cope with him still having contact and doing an amazing job at coping with it..then I really have to pull up my big girl panties and stop obsessing and giving up my power to some insignificant chick, who is no longer in the picutre and lives across the ocean ffs!!! You are my inspiration!!
I am thinking of you and hoping that the job works out for him!! Please keep us updated.