Talk About Marriage - View Single Post - My husband would rather smoke pot to forget about me and my son than to be with us.

Jamison · 04-19-2012, 11:42 AM

Weigh your options.... See if the good qualities of you remaining in this marriage out weight the bad qualities.

I agree about you you finishing up your school.... This is something you need to do for you! Try to do it now if you can, it wont get easier the older you get.... Not saying it can't be done, but its probably best to get that out of the way now. One less thing to worry about.

I understand you don't want to give up or be a failure.... BUT ask yourself this question....what are you failing at exactly? Because your marriage didn't stay intact? Would you rather stay in a not so good marriage and say hey I stayed married and didn't fail at that... or would you rather get out of something thats just not healthy for you and your son and try to make a better life for you both?

Don't look at it as failing or giving up...look at it as making things for you and your son better!

04-19-2012, 11:42 AM	#5 (permalink)
Jamison Member Join Date: Feb 2011 Posts: 870	Re: My husband would rather smoke pot to forget about me and my son than to be with u Weigh your options.... See if the good qualities of you remaining in this marriage out weight the bad qualities. I agree about you you finishing up your school.... This is something you need to do for you! Try to do it now if you can, it wont get easier the older you get.... Not saying it can't be done, but its probably best to get that out of the way now. One less thing to worry about. I understand you don't want to give up or be a failure.... BUT ask yourself this question....what are you failing at exactly? Because your marriage didn't stay intact? Would you rather stay in a not so good marriage and say hey I stayed married and didn't fail at that... or would you rather get out of something thats just not healthy for you and your son and try to make a better life for you both? Don't look at it as failing or giving up...look at it as making things for you and your son better!